Transforming your dreams to reality: how ready are you for lasting fulfilment?
Everyone has dreams, yet only a few truly grasp the opportunity to transform aspirations into reality. Are you ready to take control and navigate the twists and turns on the path to lasting fulfilment?
Preparing for Your Dreams
In a world brimming with uncertainties, the key lies in meticulous preparation, flexibility, and persistence. Preparation is the key to experiencing genuine lasting fulfilment. It is the foundation for living your best life. While it’s not possible to be ready for everything, it is possible to be as prepared as you can be for anything that is reasonably foreseeable. In a world of few certainties, you can push the odds largely in your favour. And that means being ready.

Get ready for lasting fulfilment
Consistently develop your capabilities. The more you can do – the more you can do.
Get the basics of your life under control. The PERMA model provides an excellent platform for this.
Develop your authentic self. Align your activities with your strengths, values, beliefs, and sense of purpose.
Build reserves to manage the setbacks. With reserves in place, setbacks present us with decisions rather than knockout blows.
Get – and remain – in intellectual control. Make time for frequent deep relaxation: meditation, yoga, hypnosis – whatever works best for you.
Beyond the Basics
With the above platform in place, you will be ready to walk your own path: a unique journey, a unique destination – and a unique legacy. Ready to get started?
Develop a clear description of the dream_ see it, feel it, hear it
Reverse plan how you will achieve the dream: start with the dream, then work out the final stage, then the one before that, and the one before that – all the way back to the present day
Seek out the people who can help you realise your dreams
Learn how to use self-hypnosis. The techniques we have here are transformational
Let go of the baggage from the past which no longer serves you
Keep a journal about what you’re accomplishing toward your dreams
Reflect on what has gone well – and why it has gone well. What didn’t work so well? What have I learned? How will I apply that learning?
Consider the benefits of working with a skilled helper: putting things in perspective, sharing the tools to support your progress: a huge return for your investment in yourself.
Persistence
Keep your dreams in mind. Visualise your success. Constantly remind yourself why your dreams are important. Dedicate regular time to work on your dreams. Adopt the habit of asking yourself: what is the most value adding thing I could be doing right now? Deliberate on the negative thoughts of your inner critic. Work with a helper to remove those limiting beliefs and challenge those unresourceful thought patterns. Working towards your dreams means recognising that you are good enough and you are worthy. Adapt your strategy to reflect your learning: why have a mind if you never change it?
Get The Lasting Fulfilment You Really Want
Create a vision for each major area of your life, possibly in a journal, but most importantly – deep inside yourself.
When you begin to think about what you truly want from the perspective of your authentic self, free from limiting beliefs, you’ll find your true passions. You’ll find what matters most to you and you’ll feel the excitement, and the fulfilment, of walking your own path. This is what it means to prepare yourself for your dreams. When you’re prepared, you’ll know that you are already on your way and you just need to keep going.
Genuine Desire + Effective Strategy + Persistent Consistence =Authentic Results
The author, Kevin Whitelaw, is an accredited Solution Focused Hypnotherapist who helps adults across the globe become their best selves. He can be found here: A little about me
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